Have you witnessed staff acting in an unprofessional manner? If so, what can you do to avoid
pitfalls associated with unprofessional behavior?
Yes, I have witnessed staff acting in an unprofessional manner. I had a staff member at another school tell other staff members that I "hated" her. I was shocked and confused once this got back to me. I had no idea what she was talking about. In my opinion, I always said good morning to her and I feel like I am a happy, approachable person. I felt like I was back in high school. I was disappointed in her for not coming to talk to me directly and instead, spread rumors. I felt this was very unprofessional and immature. I still feel that way, 7 years later.
I did take the high road and approached her. I told her what I had heard and that I was sorry if I every did anything to upset her. She could not give me an answer as to why she felt that way about me. I guess you can't please everyone. However, approaching her about it prevented anything else from happening from her. The ironic thing about this all is that I really had no opinion of her before all of this. Afterwards, I stay clear of her and don't trust her.
I don't think people in a working relationship should be talking bad about one another. I am sure that I have been guilty of this, as I am human. However, I remind myself every day to mind my own business. If it doesn't involve me then I don't need to give my two-cents without anyone's solicitation.
